Post by Oluwajide Oluwatumilara (@oluwajide_oluwatumilara)

Good evening Leekeeleekee families

Please I need your honest advice

I am a young man who recently got married, and honestly, I don’t know what to do about my situation.

When I met my wife, she told me she had only one child. I told her that having a child was not a crime and that I had no problem with it. We dated for six months, and during that period, I trusted her and believed she had been honest with me.

Eventually, I paid her bride price, and we had our traditional marriage. Since then, we have been living peacefully as husband and wife. She is currently seven months pregnant with twins.

However, something shocking just happened. My wife recently confessed to me that she actually has four children, not one as she initially told me. When I asked her why she had lied to me, she said she was afraid I would leave her if she told me the truth.

Honestly, I am confused and heartbroken. I am still a young man trying to build my life, and I thought I could manage the responsibility of raising one child. Because I have no any children of my own. I am just 30 years old. Now, I have discovered that I am expected to take responsibility for four children, and with the twins on the way, we will soon have six children.

My problem is not that she has children from a previous relationship. I accepted her when I believed she had one child. What hurts me most is that she deliberately concealed the number of kids she has from me before we got married I feel that I was denied the opportunity to make an informed decision about my future.

Right now, I don’t know what to do. I am worried about the financial responsibilities. I am only just starting my life, and this situation is overwhelming me.

Please, I need honest advice.

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