Post by Sopuruchi peace (@peacesopuru)

BECOMING HER — PART 2
LEARN TO COMMUNICATE

Sometimes, the problem isn't that she doesn't have something to say.

It's that nobody ever taught her how to say it.

So she keeps quiet when she's hurt.

She says “I'm fine” when she's anything but fine.

She gets angry when what she really wants is to be understood.

She expects people to know what's wrong without telling them.

And sometimes, she says things in the heat of the moment that she wishes she could take back.

But growth teaches her something different.

She learns that communication isn't about speaking the loudest.

It's about learning to express herself clearly.

She learns to say:

“That hurt me.”

“I don't agree with you.”

“I need some time to think.”

“I appreciate you.”

“I'm sorry. I was wrong.”

“This is not okay with me.”

She learns to listen without immediately preparing her response.

She learns that being honest doesn't require being cruel.

And she learns that keeping everything inside isn't the same as keeping the peace.

Sometimes, the woman you're becoming is simply the woman who finally learns how to say what she means, mean what she says, and listen when others speak.

That's growth too. 🎉♥️

What is one thing communication has taught you?

#BecomingHer #Part2 #WomenWhoGrow #PersonalGrowth #SelfDevelopment #Lekeelekee

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