Post by Oluchi (@_luchisjournal)

Well, YES, YOU DONT KNOW YOURSELF 🤷
HOW TO KNOW YOURSELF 🤔🤔

So I made a post on knowing THY SELF and having a solid IDENTITY OF WHO YOU ARE..
So I actually wanted to get everyone's opinion and views to at least right?
But, I thought to at least break down the idea..

hmmmm
I guess starting to answer these questions 👇 genuinely will give the eye opener...

What do I value?
What actually matters to me?
What do I believe?
What are my principles, convictions, and worldview?
What do I want?
Not what my family, friends, society, or partner wants for me.
What don't I want?
What are my boundaries and deal-breakers?
What am I good at?
My strengths, abilities, and natural tendencies.
Where am I weak?
The areas where I struggle or need growth.
How do I behave under pressure?
Do I withdraw, fight, please people, overthink, etc.?
What makes me feel alive?
The things, environments, and experiences that genuinely fulfil me.
What scares me?
And how much of my behaviour is being driven by those fears?
What kind of person do I want to become?

And no it doesn't mean having everything...
You can know yourself and still be changing.

Because eventually...
Your identity is your sense of “Who am I?”
No matter what people say...
Emphasis on what people say...
Because if you keep changing your values and who you are instead of evolving to appease people... Then really, DO YOU KNOW YOURSELF ?

And just so you know, there is a difference between evolving and changing.... Should we talk about this 😊

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