Post by Gladden Ngozi (@Gladden)

Cheating Isn't a Mistake

A mistake is forgetting an anniversary.
A mistake is calling someone by the wrong name.
A mistake is taking the wrong turn on the road.

Cheating is different.
It involves a series of choices:
A conversation.
A decision to hide it.
Another meeting.
More lies.
More deception.

It is rarely a single moment. It is usually a pattern of deliberate decisions.
People can make poor choices, regret them, and genuinely change. Redemption is possible.

But calling cheating "a mistake" often minimizes the responsibility that comes with those choices.

Accountability begins when we stop excusing intentional actions as accidental ones.

What are your thoughts? Is cheating a mistake, a choice, or both?

Good evening, Lekeelekee Family❤️
I hope your day went well. Wishing you a peaceful evening and a restful night ahead. 🌹

Cheating Isn't a Mistake A mistake is forgetting an anniversary. A mistake is calling someone by th...

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Jhoanna Lacsamana: I agree that cheating is a choice. A mistake can happen in a moment of carelessness, but cheating usually involves multiple decisions to cross boundaries, hide the truth, and continue despite knowing the consequences.
Chi Ekpunobi: The process that leads to cheating, it can't be a mistake. From texting to meeting up, is a choice.
Mild Uchenna: Cheating can be a mistake it can be a choice, it all depends on the circumstance.
Chukwudi Onwuelingo: I'll go with choice.
Comfort Yako Asala: Cheating is a choice. A decision was made at the point of committing the act be it deliberately or otherwise 👌🏼
Martha Godwin: Devilish choice
Rejoice Osunwoke: I suppose it's a choice. I will need to be schooled on how it's a mistake.
Mathew Clinton: There's no two words about cheating.
It is Deliberate 😃
Efemena Akelemo: This just comes to mind: it is their emotions that they calling a mistake
James Chukwumaobi: Is not good, chitter surprised to painalized because is not good.