Post by Blessing Ojoma Onakpa (@blessing-82)

Dear Mistresses,
If he speaks so disrespectfully about the woman he married while he’s with you, what makes you think he won’t one day speak the same way about you to someone else?

If he hasn’t left his wife for you, are you really his choice or simply his convenience?

If someone can betray the person they promised loyalty to, don’t assume you’re immune from receiving the same treatment.

Know your worth. Refuse to be anyone’s secret, backup plan, or weapon against another woman.

A man who truly intends to build a future with you will do so openly and honorably, not by asking you to compete with the woman he has already committed to.

Let’s stop tearing each other down and start holding people accountable for their own choices. Integrity, honesty, and respect should never be optional.

Dear Mistresses, If he speaks so disrespectfully about the woman he married while he’s with you, wha...

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POULTRY AND FISHERY: If he’s willing to break the promises he made in public, the ones he whispers in private aren’t worth the air they’re spoken with.
Olalekan: If the wife was always giving issues, he could fall out of love
Comfort Yako Asala: Valid submission 💯
May spouses remain faithful to each other
And may the mistresses and side cocks use their tongue to count teeth 😁
Like minds🫂: My Mum always say that if you sell your brother that even the buyer will never trust you after the business.
Miss Annabel Ossai: I wonder oo
Omotoso Taiwo Yemi: They won't listen to you, nothing concerns them, they just want to make sure they eat that pepper soup, ride with him in this luxury car, lodge them in the 5 star hotel, get the money for wig and clothes, and at the end after he achieved what he wants and throw her away, they end up saying men are t...
Mild Uchenna: This message is so deep, thank you for always been insightful
Gladden Ngozi: Say it louder. Self-respect isn't selfish, it's survival.
FredMan 💠🌹 💠: Apply to Both gender or one side gender?
Chi Ekpunobi: Mistresses don't care about all that
They mostly after the man's money
Any other concerns, wouldn't bother them.