Post by Mild Uchenna (@Milduchenna)

STOP “FAKING IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT.”

Good morning, fam!

I don't completely agree with the popular saying, “Fake it until you make it.” Confidence is good, but pretending to have what you haven't earned can become a trap. You may fake success, knowledge, or lifestyle, but eventually, reality will demand substance.

Instead, build it until you become it. If you are learning, admit it. If you're starting small, own it. If you don't know, ask. If you're struggling, keep building.

There is nothing shameful about saying, “I'm not there yet, but I'm on my way.

Don't fake the results. Build the capacity that produces the results. Authenticity may not impress everyone immediately, but substance will eventually speak louder than appearance.

I am Mild Uchenna, and yes, I believe in building it until you become it.

STOP “FAKING IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT.”

Good morning, fam! 

I don't completely agree with the popular...

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Omoniyi Abiola: Good morning
Comfort Yako Asala: You can only fool yourself by living a fake life.
Let your situation push you to build yourself up
Good morning Sir
Justin Iheme: I totally agree with the short but direct advice, faking it until u make is a like cutting of every possible assistance
Gladden Ngozi: I think the phrase has often been misunderstood. Acting with confidence is different from pretending to possess skills, experience, or achievements you don't have.

Packaging has its place—it helps people notice your value. But packaging should reflect substance, not replace it.
Confidence should...
Mummy G. O Page: Wawao. Amazing.
I love it.
I will put it in Ai video.
Thank you for this clarification and information
Felix: Happy new month
Obafemi EMILOLA, FIMC, CMC®: Yes, we must be real with ourselves
Blessing Ojoma Onakpa: Couldn't agree more, pretense only builds a house of cards, but quiet, authentic effort creates a foundation that actually lasts.
Rejoice Osunwoke: There is nothing advantageous about faking it. Better to be real than to be drawn to life of lies.
Chi Ekpunobi: Rightly said. Happy New Month