Post by Comfort Yako Asala (@Com4th)

26 July 2026

We had an interesting interactive session at church.
The topic: Peace with ALL MEN (no be today women dey try keep peace with men o 😀)
Sub Topic: The home
An elderly mother gave her own perspective on how couple of her time married in her words 'for God's sake" -Meaning marriage back then never had material intonation attached. Unlike married women of this era.
Shortly after, Pastor gave to give his own insights. He said When Mummy C (the elderly mother) gave her talk,he whispered to his wife, " Wetin make you marry me"? He said his wife replied " Your Jetta" and the entire church gave a rousing laughter 😂😂 😂. It was a joke though 🤣.

Marriage is indeed deep. If you are not ready to make sacrifices for peace to reign, stay single (My own thoughts 💭 💬)

Lemme digress a bit. Never indulge in intimate relationships in these 3 places
1. Your church
2. Your workplace
3. As we say in Pidgin, Compound (flat mates or neighbours)
If e cast na to live with the pain or leave that place ✌🏼

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Gyang Isaac: These last 3 very important 😂😂 no try am.

Gyang Isaac: But this story too short o.

David Onyedikachi: Chai
You no talk fast and I don fall in love 😲

AOJ: The Vollswagen Jetta was the bomb of a luxury car back then. We used to have this uncle in our neigbourhood who works with Shell. He had a white Jetta. You know na, oye (oil) money. So, mummy G.O. get better eyes when she marry pastor o! 🤣🤣🤣

Mathew Clinton: You're absolutely right 👍

Danny Angbashim: Every era has its peculiarities and nuances when it comes to relationships but when the chips are down 'water go always find I'm level.'

Can really be messy if 2 people in the same environment fall in and out of attraction for each other (can't be love).
But many found love in enclosed spaces and...

Parent Push: Abeg is there a continuation of the story .

Omotosho Kehinde Seun: The Jetta part finished me 😂😂
Mummy C talk deep things, Pastor turn am to comedy with one line.
But sha, the message is correct. Marriage is sacrifice. If you’re not ready, stay single and keep your peace.
And that last point??? Church, Work, Compound. 😂 If e cast, na you go dey carry shame

Obafemi EMILOLA, FIMC, CMC®: There are also beautiful relationships in the aforementioned though they might be few

Mild Uchenna: Everything against the most vulnerable Gender