Post by IPKISS (@ipkiss)
Your phone has password.
Your door has lock
You hold your purse tightly in public
You watch over your child in public
Your ATM card pin is secured
…….because you’re aware that there are ©️r!min@l$, burgl@r$, h@©️k€r$, k!d₦@pp€rs, child trffffickkers, outlaws etc.
But you shake nyash on social media, jump on different secsual trends, secsualize yourself online, twerk, but somehow you convince yourself that the men you attract through your nyash exposures should have self control when their biological reactions are to have some of whatever you're selling.
It's just like expecting decency from a thief when you fail to lock your house.
But the same you, who knows the importance of security and protection will fail to protect yourself but blame the men for not having DISCIPLINE.
Let's dissect it, you want men's attention so you sell obscenity on your page. The men that you are selling to, start to troop in because of what you're offering........you all catch up in your inbox and go down to business.
You ask him for financial assistance, he supports.
You ask him for food money, he sends.
You ask him for data and airtime money, he sends....
While building the anticipation to the day you agree to meet.
He sends you money for transport.
He lodges in a hotel.
Buys the food.
Buys the drinks.
You come, dressed pr0v0©️@+ively, giving him a glimpse of what to expect.
You both are locked inside the hotel room.
And you want him to cease fire because you said NO.....wait! I want to understand, you want a man who has spent over 400k to meet you to just exercise SELF CONTROL....that chalk you drew on your tongue must be deceiving you.
A lot of vvomen intentionally play dvmb. You know what a man who came through your azz shaking video, wants from you.
You know why he wants to meet you in a hotel.
You know what the meeting is about hence why you didn't tell your parents but only told your sister in case anything happens to you.
.....if your waka is a clean one why should something happen to you?
Who told vvomen that their NO will save them from a stranger they met in a hotel room?
They don't know that at that point the man is only analysing how much he has spent so far. Who will reimburse him the money he spent?
Every man is not the same, different men react differently to similar situation. You might $l@p a man and he overlooks it and you might poke another and he lands you in the hospital.... that's what I want vvomen to understand.
It's easier to teach a zebra how to navigate the wild and stay clear from predator's territory versus teaching a lion how to eat grass....
The same way you password your phone, WhatsApp, Facebook and other apps in your phone......do the same for yourself. Don't give others the responsibility of keeping you safe.
You’ll only garner pity and sympathy from Umu Anya Mmiri and life goes on.
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