Post by Adeyemi (@adeyemitalabi)

I was in the shower, thinking about how sometimes people you believe you are very important to just move on and, for lack of a better word, discard everything about you as they navigate through life. To you, it feels as though you’re having a much tougher journey, and you’re all alone.

Then you begin to remember how important you seemed to them when you had something to offer; something that was valuable to them at that particular time.

Then it struck me: what if that’s exactly how those other people are viewing you?

Maybe they also feel that you dumped and discarded them as you navigated through life because you no longer wanted them in your circle.

So, what makes the other party answerable and not you?

What if exactly what you were thinking was exactly what the other party was thinking too?

Just something that crossed my mind while I was taking a shower.

Think about it.

I was in the shower, thinking about how sometimes people you believe you are very important to just...

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Comfort Yako Asala: It's true. No excuses.
Most likely, we vividly remember our own pain, our own empty spaces, and the sharp sting of feeling like we were only valued for what we could provide at the time.
Unless there is explicit cruelty, most human drifting isn't malicious—it’s just clumsy. We are all just trying t...
Comfort Yako Asala: It's true. No excuses.
Most likely, we vividly remember our own pain, our own empty spaces, and the sharp sting of feeling like we were only valued for what we could provide at the time.
Unless there is explicit cruelty, most human drifting isn't malicious—it’s just clumsy. We are all just trying t...