Post by Kenneth Franklyn (@kenfrank)

I’ve been thinking: After all I’ve seen from some Nigerian girls both at home and abroad, I have to ask — is it wise to still push “marry her and bring her abroad”?

Some use love as a visa strategy. Some change the minute they get status. Some stay genuine and ride with you through everything.

So my little advice: Stop chasing a nationality. Chase values. Vet her when she has nothing, not just when she wants something. And men, work on yourselves too — nobody wants a broke/unstable man either.

It’s not about “all women are like that”. It’s about choosing wisely so your story doesn’t become a cautionary tale.

Men, what’s your advice to the next guy? Women, what’s your take? Let’s talk without insults.

I’ve been thinking: After all I’ve seen from some Nigerian girls both at home and abroad, I have to...

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David Onyedikachi: Use that money bring me abroad instead.
Mathew Clinton: This is quite informative. The recent trend of Nigerian women abroad maltre@ting their fellow husband is really worrisome.

The men need to be careful while choosing their would be wife.
Parent Push: This is a good question
Comfort Yako Asala: This is an interesting topic to which your advice is a valid point.
Obviously, distant marriage is not healthy for couples hence the decision to bring a spouse abroad is not an option. The issue is that most people living abroad marry based on referrals without knowing their intended spouses as muc...
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