Post by Kenneth Franklyn (@kenfrank)

*What I Learned From @Milduchenna + @Gladden’s Posts*

I read both posts several times until it sank in. Then this is the reply I came up with. Check the original posts, too — they’re worth it.

*Simple Truth About Marriage, Advice & Divorce Parties*

*1. Stop copying other people’s marriage*
“Treat your wife like I treated your mother” sounds wise. But it can mislead you.
Marriage isn’t math. There’s no 1 formula.
What worked for your dad might not work for you.
Your spouse isn’t your mum or dad. They’re their own people.

*Key:* Study _your_ spouse. Talk to them. Respect them. Build a relationship that fits both of you — not your parents’ versions.

*2. Why “Congrats on your divorce” is everywhere now*
Divorce used to be whispered. Today it’s on cakes and IG posts.

That means 2 things:
1. *The good:* People are braver. They leave abuse, violence, and toxic cycles instead of “staying for the kids.” Safety first.
2. *The risk:* Some people quit too fast. When bra eakup gets party energy, we stop learning patience, forgiveness, and how to fix things together.

*Bottom line:*
1. Don’t stay where there’s danger. Leave if there’s abuse.
2. Don’t celebrate every breakup. Some marriages fail because we never learned to talk and stay.
3. Build YOUR marriage. Not your parents’. Not Instagram’s. Yours.

*In 1 sentence:*
Marriage works when 2 people truly understand each other, and divorce should be for safety — not for clout.

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