Post by Gist Flow NG (@Light)

Women and girls, did you see why some of us speak the way we do? Did you see why we keep saying that your life, safety and wellbeing must never revolve around a man? Why we ask you to be selfish with your life? Look at this statement. A woman suffers a violent crime, and the first thing on this goat's mind is not her trauma, not her pain, not her healing, not the fact that she was violated. His concern is that another man had sex with her.

Imagine reducing a human being to that. Imagine comparing a woman's life, dignity and suffering to sex.

This is exactly one of the many reasons we keep saying that marriage is not an achievement. Marriage is not a trophy. It is simply one of the many choices available in life. And this is why women should never build their entire identity around men. Build your own life. Build your own mind. Build your own finances. Build your own support system.

The most shocking thing about this statement is not that he said it. The most shocking thing is how many men secretly think this way but would never say it publicly. At least this Ewu gambia was bold enough to say exactly what was on his mind.

A woman experiences one of the most traumatic events imaginable, his first concern is still ownership, sex and ego.

Women, please value yourselves beyond your relationships with men. Your humanity is bigger than who you marry. Your worth is bigger than who chooses you. And your life is worth far more than being reduced to someone's possession.

The things these men say online reveal exactly how they see women.

DECENTER MEN! DECENTER MEN! DECENTER MEN! DECENTER MEN!

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