Post by Kushuwai (@habila_yakubu)

“Men cheat, men cheat…”

But let’s pause and really think about this.

What if the story isn’t as one-sided as we make it seem?

Many women have that one particular guy… not her boyfriend, not her husband.
He doesn’t show up in her life the way you do.
He doesn’t carry responsibilities.
He doesn’t invest like her spouse invest.

Yet somehow…
She is always available for him (the guy). Anytime. Anywhere. No questions asked.

Here’s the twist:
He knows her spouse.
But her spouse or fiance don’t know about (the guy).

And why would he confront her fiance?
He won’t. He never will.

Because he’s comfortable.
Because he’s benefiting.
Because he understands his role—and he’s okay with it.

While her fiance is busy sending money out of love… 30k, 50k, 100k…
Making sacrifices, showing commitment…

A portion of that same effort is being redirected—
under the name of “bestie.”

And in the end?
He still gets access to what her spouse working so hard to protect.

So now, let’s ask the real question—
not with anger, but with honesty:

Who is really cheating who?

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