Post by Blessing Ojoma Onakpa (@blessing-82)

Legally, a husband doesn’t need his wife’s permission to carry out a DNA test on his children.
But as a wife, if he goes ahead and the result comes out positive… would you still trust him the same, or feel disappointed he ever doubted you?

Legally, a husband doesn’t need his wife’s permission to carry out a DNA test on his children. But a...

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Funmilayo: Once a relationship moves from trust to validation, it’s hard to feel that same level of intimacy and safety. It’s difficult to look at someone the same way when you know they were capable of looking at you and seeing a lie where there was only the truth.
Titilayo: Will sure feel disappointed for him to doubt my love and trust for him especially when he has never caught or seen me doing anything bad or acting unfaithful.
David Onyedikachi: For him to carry out the test that means trust has been breached by both parties
Koko: Something must have pushed him to do the DNA test and if it comes out positive, it can never be same between us again
Zika: Will definitely feel disappointed. It will surely affect the relationship.
LekeeLekee User: Legally, yes, but in most cases, a DNA test doesn’t come out of nowhere. It’s usually triggered by doubt, misinformation, or something that has affected trust in the relationship.
The Wealth architect: Something must have triggered it
Being Ready And Stable (BRAS): The real question is: what could have led to this? If I as a wife have never given him any reason to go down that path, and he still does it purely out of his own insecurity, then even if the result is positive, the relationship will likely never be the same.
Kebe Ikpi: When trust is broken, it's not easy to have a perfect healing.
Linzkits: Societal decadence birth this mindset.