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Do you believe a mother can influence how a child sees their father positively or negatively?
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CSO intl: If she shows respect, communicates well, and allows a healthy relationship, the child is more likely to see the father in a positive light. But constant criticism, tension, or emotional distance can create bias, even if unintentional.
Kings Nation: A mother doesn’t just influence what a child thinks about the father; she can shape what the child feels safe believing. If a child senses that loving or admiring their father will upset their mother, they may quietly suppress those feelings even if their own experiences with him are positive.
Gladden Ngozi: Constantly putting your spouse on the spot in is a negative way is an error.
It’s very wrong, my mum will always say “Di la nwanyi bu nwanne”. 😀😀
It’s very wrong, my mum will always say “Di la nwanyi bu nwanne”. 😀😀
Literary Minds: Of course, there is every truth about the power of influence a mother can wield over a child. She is part of the child's learning curve.
Kings Nation: In reality, both parents are “storytellers” in a child’s life—but actions usually speak louder than words. A mother can influence the lens, but the child eventually decides what they truly see through it.
Kings Nation: When a mother speaks with respect, even during disagreements, it often helps the child feel safe loving both parents. It builds a sense that relationships can be complex but still grounded in respect. On the other hand, constant criticism, insults, or emotional manipulation can quietly train a child...
AOJ: When it comes to our boy, Ehimen, my wife and I have no grey areas about how he sees his dadada. Dadada is the best, full stop. This topic is a complete no-go area for us.
Larry: Yes that’s for sure women can do
Dada Ogbegun: Yes. Infact, Big yes. Conspiracy theory exist against men very long ago before the time any of us in this generation were born. Generations after generations, it has been like this. Nothing is done about this. And nothing will be done about it. It will continue until Jesus Christ come if at He is co...
Kings Nation: A mother often acts like the “lens” a child first looks through. If that lens is calm, fair, and respectful, the child is more likely to approach the father with openness. If it’s bitter, dismissive, or hurt, the child may carry that tone into how they interpret everything the father does.