Post by BLESSING’S SHORE (@blessingreminder)

Honestly, dating in Lagos is really hard.
I’ve gone on about 26 dates in two years, and that’s not even including all the many chats on dating apps that didn’t lead anywhere. I honestly thought it would be easier to meet someone than this.
There was this one girl I was seeing for almost two months.

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Honestly, dating in Lagos is really hard. I’ve gone on about 26 dates in two years, and that’s not...

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BLESSING’S SHORE: I even spent a long weekend together. I thought we were building something real. But as I got into my ride home after the weekend I texted her to know if she has reached home,Silence till today.
Maybe I’m too sensitive, I don't know. My friends tell me, "Abeg move on, if she ghosts you, she’s not th...
BLESSING’S SHORE: I’m only 32, but I feel like a 60-year-old in my heart. I’m tired of the "Tell me about yourself" stage. I’m fed up with people disappointing me. Sometimes I ask myself, "Is it even worth my peace of mind to keep opening my door for these people?"
But if I stop, I’m scared I’ll just lock up forever....
LekeeLekee User: “My guy, I feel you. Lagos dating fit humble person 😅 But 26 dates means you’re showing up. No be you be the problem. Person wey go value you no go go silent like that.
LekeeLekee User: “My guy, I feel you. Lagos dating fit humble person 😅 But 26 dates means you’re showing up. No be you be the problem. Person wey go value you no go go silent like that.”
Oluwadamilare: They suppose give you PhD for dating.😄
But don't worry you will find your woman when is time
LekeeLekee User: Just be calm and don’t rush. Desperation can lead you to mistakes
Benedicta: 😂😂
You will have your own soon
Koko: Wow 26 dates...no be moimoi o😀
Funmilayo: It’s also understandable to start questioning yourself. Anyone in your shoes would wonder, “Is it me?” But going on 26 dates doesn’t mean you’re the problem, it means you’ve been trying. And trying, even when it’s exhausting, is not weakness.
Titilayo: You really try o. Don't put yourself under unnecessary pressure