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VALENTINE’S DAY GONE WRONG! PART 3

Deaconess Mercy had led two of her children to Christ and ensured they were well grounded in the children’s department of the church. She was confident in their spiritual foundation. Her concern, however, had shifted to the children in her neighborhood, children she believed were not living right. She had warned her own children never to associate with them.

As a result, whenever her two children were on holiday, their routine never changed, 👇

VALENTINE’S DAY GONE WRONG! PART 3 Deaconess Mercy had led two of her children to Christ and ensur...

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Being Ready And Stable (BRAS): it was always from the house to church, and from church back home.

What Deaconess Mercy did not realize was that while she was protecting her children from perceived external dangers, a quiet distance was growing between her and Naomi, a distance created not by rebellion, but by fear, misunderstand...
Africa Growth Hub (Official): Restriction alone doesn’t ensure safety. guidance and understanding matter more
Comfort Yako Asala: Distancing yourself from having a simple conversation with your kids will only drift you apart.
Reality Check ✅: The relationship between a mother and her young kids should be the first goal a mother should achieve cos when you achieve that, you become not just the Mom but their best friends and best friends tell eachother everything
CSO intl: It’s understandable that Deaconess Mercy wanted to protect her children and preserve the values she had worked hard to instill in them. Every parent desires that sense of control and assurance. But sometimes, in trying to shield children from “bad influence,” we may unknowingly limit their ability t...
Like minds🫂: Knowledge and wisdom are not the same thing, Deaconess Mercy has the knowledge but not wisdom.
Emoji CSO: Avoidance is not always protection. True grounding is tested not in isolation, but in interaction. If their foundation is truly strong, then exposure—under guidance—can become an opportunity to influence others positively rather than be influenced negatively.
Cephason Skycruz Kings: The effort to "break the will" of a child is a terrible mistake. while force may Secure outward submission. the result is a more determined rebellion of the heart.

Guide them, but never by force
Literary Minds: There are many ways to raising children. Being unnecessarily strict will only create a divide and make the children feel unloved.
Rejoice Osunwoke: The goal of every parent should be to be the best version of parents to their children.