Post by Blessing Ojoma Onakpa (@blessing-82)
Adultery doesn’t start with an action it starts with attention.
It begins quietly in the heart, a thought entertained too long, a feeling not checked, a connection that feels harmless. But what we feed grows. The more we dwell on what’s wrong or missing, the easier it becomes to justify what we once knew was wrong.
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Oluwadamilare: Hmmm Adultery doesn’t start with an action—it starts with attention.
Bello: Beautiful lady you look so sweet?!!