Post by Blessing Ojoma Onakpa (@blessing-82)
Companionship, on the other hand, is what sustains marriage through every season, before children, during child-rearing, and even after the children have grown and left. It is the foundation that keeps two people choosing each other daily, beyond roles like “mother” and “father.” Without that, couples slowly become co-parents or housemates rather than partners.

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Blessing Ojoma Onakpa: This is why some marriages begin to crack after childbirth. The attention shifts entirely to the children, intimacy drops, communication weakens, and the friendship that should hold everything together is neglected. If there was no strong companionship to begin with, the relationship starts to feel...
Blessing Ojoma Onakpa: It’s also important to say that not all men—or women—intentionally marry just for children, but when that mindset exists (whether consciously or subconsciously), it shows in behavior. A partner who truly values companionship will still nurture the relationship, prioritize connection, and see their s...