Post by Blessing Ojoma Onakpa (@blessing-82)
The moment marriage becomes a mission instead of a relationship, it starts to lose its meaning. If the goal is only children, what happens after they come?
Marriage was built on COMPANIONSHIP first. Without that, couples drift into co-parenting, not partnership.
Children are a blessing, not the glue. Choose someone who wants you, not just what you can give.
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Blessing Ojoma Onakpa: For any woman (or man), the real wisdom is in discernment before commitment. Pay attention to how a person talks about marriage:
• Do they speak more about children than partnership?
• Do they value friendship, emotional connection, and growth together?
• Do they see you as a person, or just a ro...
• Do they speak more about children than partnership?
• Do they value friendship, emotional connection, and growth together?
• Do they see you as a person, or just a ro...
Blessing Ojoma Onakpa: Because in the end, a marriage built on companionship grows deeper with time.
A marriage built only on purpose or expectation eventually runs out of meaning once that purpose is fulfilled.
Children should come into a loving union, not replace it.
A marriage built only on purpose or expectation eventually runs out of meaning once that purpose is fulfilled.
Children should come into a loving union, not replace it.
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