Post by Blessing Ojoma Onakpa (@blessing-82)
A man once said, “I don’t see my wife as family, I see her as a neighbor’s daughter.”
But if a man truly sees his wife that way, how can he genuinely make her happy or feel secure in the marriage? Statements like this reveal a mindset that can make people lose faith in marriage if we are not careful.
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Blessing Ojoma Onakpa: When a man sees his wife as an outsider, it raises an important question: what does that make their children? The same blood that flows in the wife flows in the children. If the wife is considered an outsider, then by that same logic the children are not fully accepted either.
To every single woman...
To every single woman...
Blessing Ojoma Onakpa: This is why it is important for women to pay attention before committing to marriage:
• Observe a man’s beliefs and values.
• Listen carefully to how he speaks about women.
Choose a partner who sees you as family, values you, and treats you as someone who truly belongs in his life—not as an outside...
• Observe a man’s beliefs and values.
• Listen carefully to how he speaks about women.
Choose a partner who sees you as family, values you, and treats you as someone who truly belongs in his life—not as an outside...
AOJ: Not even as his own daughter or as a friend? What a man!