Post by Patience Ime smith (@Patience)

Men, listen up.

Marriage is not a reward system.
She is not a prize.
She is not your unpaid assistant.

Yet many of you walk in expecting her to: cook, clean, manage your life, raise your kids, fix your moods, and still contribute financially.

You call that leadership. We call it laziness.

Real men build together. Real men share effort. Real men do not exploit love as free labor.

If you are not ready to show up fully, stop pretending.

The rest is in the comments.

Men, listen up.

Marriage is not a reward system.
She is not a prize.
She is not your unpaid assista...

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Stanley Boshe: Apt
Patience Ime smith: Many men think being a “provider” is enough.

They forget that marriage is two full lives colliding, not one life demanding service while the other rests.

If she is working, dreaming, building, and contributing, you show up. You do not sit back expecting her to carry the second shift of life while...