Post by Okoisi Adesua Iyabode (@9icesua)

Learning to say No is one of the surest ways to self preservation,been depended does not make ur the family's ATM ,cos at the end of it all when the chips are down ,the same family will turn around and call you wicked or selfish, healthy boundaries are very necessary otherwise you will be become an ATM with a pulse for very entitled family members.
So peeps make u re looking out for yourself while acting super hero . Good morning

Learning to say No is one of the surest ways to self preservation,been depended does not make ur the...

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Mummy G. O: Many are still falling victim of it. I was also a victim for years foolishly.
Cephason Skycruz Kings: Follow back please
Chris Alani Makinde: Adesua, self-preservation is not selfishness.
The same people who resent your “No”
often benefited most from your silence.
Boundaries expose intentions.
They show who values you…
and who only values access to you.
Say No with wisdom.
Say Yes with character.
Stay compassionate —
but never at the cost...