Post by Patience Ime smith (@Patience)
I Need Counsel Before I Marry Him.
I am writing this because I genuinely need wisdom, not validation.
The man I am with is not a bad person. In many ways, he is good. He is responsible, family minded, and thoughtful in practical ways. He shows care in actions people often point to as love.
But there is a part of him that unsettles me.
When he gets angry, he becomes rude. Not abusive in the obvious sense. Just sharp, dismissive, and emotionally harsh.
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Erformar: Does he overreact, or are his harsh tones justified? Also does he say spiteful things just to hurt you or are the harshness of his words directed at the conflicts in question?